Intimate Destination Elopements for Just the Two of You
What is eloping?
Eloping is the decision to intentionally craft a day that celebrates the two of you in an intimate and meaningful manner.
If you're feeling like a big traditional wedding has too much focus on choosing the color of bridesmaid dresses or deciding what songs will get your guests out on the dance floor, and not enough focus on truly celebrating your love, then eloping may be for you.
By eloping, you're:
- Able to do whatever you want! Imagine your wedding day as the best date you've ever had together.
- Taking the brave step to do something outside of the status quo in order to authentically celebrate your love.
- Choosing to create an intimate setting that feels sacred and meaningful.
- Not concerned about pleasing anyone else but yourselves.
Your wedding day shouldn't feel like one never-ending photoshoot - it should be full of memory-making activities that are true to you and that end up being the best date you've ever had together. That's why you can count on me to be more than just your photographer - I'm here to be a real friend ready to make your day stress-free, fun, and full of candid moments. I truly care about each couple I work with!
My style focuses on capturing real moments that occur between the two of you and any family members or friends that may be present. I may provide gentle suggestions and help straighten attire or fix hair, but the organic moments are what we are after. That is where realness and intimacy can be found. Trust me on this, your photos are going to be beautiful and I will be there for you every second of the day!
Creating beautiful art together requires that you show up as your true self. Be ready to be vulnerable, to let your guard down, and be emotionally available. There will be plenty of laughs, but don't be afraid to cry, too! And if you're unsure about whether or not you'll be capable of this - I'm pretty dang good at getting people to relax in front of a camera.
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Elopement FAQs
What is an elopement?
Can we invite guests to our elopement?
Should we elope?
Where to elope?
best time to elope?
Is eloping legal?
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An elopement is the intentional choice to have an intimate exchanging of vows in a setting that instills feelings of bliss and serenity. It's all about what is important to you!
Yes! To preserve the intimacy of your day, I highly recommend staying under 30 guests. Some public space areas have restrictions on number of guests allowed, but I will work with you to find the best available option.
Typically, couples who decide to elope are narrowed in on intentionality and intimacy. It's a conscious decision to forego typical wedding traditions and customize a truly special wedding day. Need help deciding? Check out my eloping resources here!
There are so many amazing places that you can get married at - whether it's a specific scenery you're after, a certain activity, or a location with special meaning, I can help you locate the perfect spot! You can also read up on some amazing possibilities here!
Is there a date that is meaningful to you? Do you envision spring flowers or snowy landscapes? Depending on the location, we can determine the best season to elope. To preserve the intimacy of your day, I suggest eloping on a weekday to avoid crowds.
Yes, so long as rules and regulations for that area are followed. However, it can be complicated with some locations. Don't let that deter you though - YOU get to define what day your wedding is. Many couples choose to handle the legalities once back home and that is totally okay!
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Do we need an officiant?
what is self-solemnization?
Do we need to hike to get stunning photos?
what does the ceremony look like?
Do I need any vendors?
how much photo coverage do we need?
Some states require an officiant if you want to legally be married the day you elope, others (like Colorado) do not. I'm ordained if you need me, or perhaps a close family member or friend can get ordained and be your officiant. Or, you can simply decide to handle the legalities later and still have a beautiful ceremony and vow exchange because you decide your wedding day.
This means you and your partner have the power to marry each other without an officiant or witness present! Colorado, Wisconsin, Pennsylvania, and Washington D.C. are the only self-solemnizing states. You'll just need to fill out your marriage license and file it with the state.
Absolutely not! Not everyone dreams of hiking 10 miles on their wedding day, and I'm here to say that that won't stop you from exploring beautiful landscapes. If you'd rather explore a town, that totally counts as an adventure, too!
There are no rules - it can look however you want! But some inspiration includes exchanging personal vows, exchanging rings, first kiss, first dance, shouting from the top of the mountain, instrumental playing or singing, planting a unity tree, sage smudging or handfasting - the list goes on!
Up to you! Vendors on your elopement day could like like a hair and makeup artist, a florist to make a beautiful sturdy bouquet, private chefs to cook up a delicious meal, etc! I'm happy to help provide vendor recommendations as well.
For an adventure elopement, I recommend at least 4-6 hours of coverage, with full day coverage lasting 10-12 hours. Some couples only want the ceremony photographed, but think about how you could transform the entire day into one big wedding adventure! This is your special day, why not go all out? If financials are a concern, I'm happy to offer a payment plan and help plan a budget-friendly day!
Elopement FAQs
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